Relationships | “Dear Love” Series : Are You My Soulmate?
- La'Tara Jackson
- Feb 28, 2024
- 3 min read
It’s our last and final episode of our Dear Love series! Stick around, go ahead, bookmark it in your favorites and be sure to read this thoroughly, and quite possibly multiple times because this post is sure to get trippy.
How many times have you questioned if someone was heaven sent or your “other half?” I know it’s been a couple times I questioned God, is this the one? Ha! But what if I told you that there are multiple “ones” and everyone you encounter is in fact your soulmate? They were designed specifically for you, down to the season, reason and their departure. In another realm we call these people teachers. They each play a part in your ascension and growth, and when their assignment is complete, they move on. However if we are attached thinking we only have “one” soulmate we could be resentful about how things end. We think of all the shoulda coulda woulda’s and are full of regret. What we fail to realize is everything is exactly as it should be and everything is going according to plan. If that person was meant to stay, they would have. You can rest in knowing y’all were “meant to be,” exactly as y’all are and nothing more. Obviously this doesn’t only apply to romantic relationships but also platonic friendships, and all manner of connections. The highest expression of love is agape also known as unconditional love. This is when we release our own selfish ambition for the greater good of evolution. It simply means once the lesson is learned, we pass the baton. Theres someone else waiting on this person in another timeline, just like there’s someone waiting on you. The true test of love is in letting go. Can you love people enough to release and allow them to grow into their highest expression (potential)? IMO that is true love.
What Exactly is a Soulmate?
I’m so glad you asked! Often we misinterpret the idea of soulmates because we are speaking from a place of void and lack. But you are not lacking and if you are no one else can fill that void. You are your soulmate! You’re the missing piece to you, and not another. I’d argue that your lack is simply unawareness. You are unaware there are many aspects to you, specifically divine masculine and feminine qualities. The love you’d hope someone else would give you is evidence you’re not providing that for yourself. Once you learn the dance of these two polarities you understand, you have everything you need within and anything anyone else provides is simply extra.
The Art of Detachment
Whew Chile! Now this is the one! It’s easy to say let go until you have to put that in practice. Detaching is not for the weak! Here’s are a couple things I remind myself when practicing non-attachment.
✨ I own nothing and no one. I am simply a steward God has entrusted with His blessings.
✨God knows what’s best. Instead of holding on I recognize I am releasing them to Yahweh.
✨I am releasing to receive. God never takes away without replacing with better.
Final Thoughts | Soulmates For Life
I live by the phrase “it is what it is that it may be for what’s to come.” It’s helped me breakthrough so many limiting beliefs and surrender to the present moment. In fact this was the mantra for this month’s guided breath meditation, be sure to check it out on my Pretty Lifted Trippy Podcast available on Spotify for podcasters and Apple podcast. I’ll see you there!
La'Tara Jackson is Author/Owner of Ground Up Self-Love Workbook and .com, and Holistic Coach both certified in personal training and yoga. She has over eight years experience in nutrition and wellness and it all began with being a single mom desiring a better life for herself and children by starting a woman's community bootcamp that would go on to change the lives of many. And that was just the beginning.
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